Marc Stern

So maybe you are new to kink, so many questions, so many different answers and perspectives from so many people. Where do we start and more importantly where does it lead? Maybe you are old hat and just looking for more information, resources and people. We hope that this resource serves you well. My own journey started years ago, having a long interruption that was capped with me restarting the journey with an amazing person that I couldn’t have even requested a better partner for it, if I had to.

For those of you that are new and exploring, there are a myriad of right ways to do this and just as many wrong ways. The right ways always start with intent. If you want positive, you will find it, you may have to look hard and be patient, but you will find it. If you walk in filled with negativity, you will undoubtedly draw that to you. There are as many negative people in this lifestyle as there are positive. That is simply a PSA, go in with open eyes and be careful.

I was lucky enough with my partner, to be able to find good people, with which we launched our foray into kink, many of those people we still hold dear to us years later. Along the way we found more amazing people and also undesirables plus learning experiences. Whatever your needs, kinks or dispositions are, you WILL find others that will welcome you with open arms and show you that you are not alone.

So if you are new to kink or been around the block(s), we hope you enjoy what we are building. A space for smart and safe people share ideas and resources to help everyone learn whilst keeping safety and fun at the highest levels.