Pony play BDSM is a captivating niche within the BDSM community. It blends role-play, power dynamics, and equine fetishism. This exploration offers insights into pony play, its motivations, and the gear used.
Some are intrigued, while others are simply curious. This post provides an in-depth look at pony play, from hoof boots to training takes and everything in-between.
Table Of Contents:
- Understanding Pony Play BDSM
- The Allure of Pony Play
- Types of Pony Play BDSM
- Pony Play Gear
- Training and Play in Pony Play BDSM
- The Human Element
- FAQs about pony play bdsm
- Conclusion
Understanding Pony Play BDSM
Pony play involves one partner as a pony and the other as owner, trainer, or rider. The pony often wears specialized gear: hoof boots, a bit and bridle, reins, and sometimes a tail butt plug. The dominant partner might wear riding attire or traditional BDSM gear.
The dynamic ranges from playful to intensely dominant and submissive. Communication and consent are crucial. Partners should discuss activities within their abilities.
Visit the RTA Label website to learn more about responsible adult content creation within pony play.
The Allure of Pony Play
The appeal of pony play is multifaceted. Some enjoy relinquishing control and embracing submission, mirroring the horse-rider relationship. The pony might find pleasure in being “trained,” groomed, and “ridden.”
Others are drawn to the aesthetic of the gear or the sensations. A bridle’s feel can evoke a strong response. Some relish tapping into a primal, animalistic side and the escapism it provides.
Types of Pony Play BDSM
Pony play has numerous variations:
- Cart pony: The pony pulls a cart for their owner, requiring specific cart pony training. It showcases strength and obedience, emphasizing a working relationship.
- Riding pony: The pony carries their owner, emphasizing physical connection and control. The riding pony accepts the rider’s weight and commands.
- Show pony: Appearance and performance take center stage. The pony, whether a human pony or horse pony, exhibits grace and precision, embodying an ideal equine form.
- Dressage: This involves skilled movements and routines, including advanced techniques like tempi changes and pirouettes (learn more about dressage training). It showcases a high level of training and coordination.
- Breeding play: This type focuses on simulated or actual pony mating rituals, adding another layer to the power dynamic. Learn more about breeding kinks via this Bad Girls Bible article.
Pony Play Gear
Some prefer minimal gear—a bit, riding crop, and maybe a tail butt plug. Others prefer a full ensemble. Pony play gear isn’t solely about aesthetics; it enhances the role-play. However, the focus can also be the person embodying the human persona.
| Gear | Purpose |
|---|---|
| Hoof Boots | Simulate hooves, add sensory restriction, and enhance roleplay. Find quality hoof boots at resources like cPony. |
| Bridle and Bit | Gives the owner/trainer control. Bit gags offer varying intensity, affecting control, feedback, and communication. |
| Saddle | Used for riding play, catering to those focused on the act and sensations. A saddle also serves as a symbolic representation of ownership. |
| Hoof Mitts/Gloves | Cover hands, resemble forelegs and hooves, and complete the equine look. They restrict hand movement, heightening the sense of being a pony. |
| Mask | Transforms the wearer into a pony. Check out sellers like Bob Basset, Porthos Stable, and Pony Play Gear. |
| Harness | Attaches gear or creates sensual friction. Explore DIY tutorials for pony play gear. |
| Riding Crop/Whip | Used for commands, light punishment, or adding sensation. A riding crop symbolizes authority. |
Etsy offers ready-made gear. If you’re crafty, DIY tutorials and patterns are available.
Training and Play in Pony Play BDSM
Like real horse training, pony play can include training elements.
- Basic Training: Activities like leading, tying, cross-tying, and grooming. It builds a foundation of behavior and trust between partners. Basic Training establishes clear communication signals.
- Intermediate Training: Focuses on the bit and reins, whip/crop responses, and gaits. Walking and trotting are refined, and advanced gaits like cantering and galloping are introduced (explore advanced gaits). It builds on the foundational elements.
- Advanced Training: Includes complex dressage routines, pulling carts (learn more about Cart Ponies), tricks, and elaborate obedience displays. This demonstrates a high level of trust and skill.
Training isn’t mandatory but adds another dimension to play.
Beginners often start with simple role-play and gradually add tack. Many enjoy pony play without fully embodying the visual stereotype of a “pony.”
The Human Element
Pony play BDSM is a fantasy. It’s about exploring roles and power dynamics within a consensual relationship. BDSM often explores primal and taboo desires, frequently linked to submission. Some who partake may feel like this role play could possibly involve the aristotelian perversion or pet play, however for most participants the dynamic of playing as a pony takes a much more front and center seat as the driver of their participation.
For many, pony play isn’t about literally being a horse. It’s a fetish. Open communication, safe words, and agreed-upon limits (use this helpful form) are essential. Safety is paramount (prioritize safety). If pony play isn’t enjoyable and safe, it’s not being done correctly. Pony play can even be non-erotic (learn about non-erotic pony play).
FAQs about pony play bdsm
What does playing pony mean?
In BDSM, “playing pony” means one partner acts as a pony, while the other is the owner, trainer, or rider. This can include gear, pony-like behavior (gaits, responding to commands), and activities like grooming, leading, or being ridden.
Conclusion
Pony play, like all BDSM, involves exploring desires, boundaries, and trust. Consider vet play, which overlaps with pony play, involving simulated rectal or dental exams. Pony play offers diverse perspectives. Like other niche communities, kindness, open minds, and respect are crucial. It can span from innocent role play to sexual domination. Explore more basic concepts here.
Through knowledge, honest communication, and proper etiquette, everyone can learn and grow.
